In Christianity, marriages are considered the union between man and woman predestined by God. The sanctity of the institution can be made clear from Jesus' message, which lays down that wedding is a relationship, a union so real and intimate that 'the two become one flesh'. Husband and wife are treated one in a Christian marriage. Being so significant to the religious mentor, Christian wedding rituals are conducted in church, amidst all friends and family members. Different sects of Christianity hold different opinions regarding marriage and have diverse ways of conducting it. Like all other marriages Christian weddings also have and post wedding rituals.
Pre Wedding Rituals
The pre wedding rituals consist primarily of engagement ceremony. After
this, there is the informal hen party known as the Bridal shower. All
the females gather at the bride's place and rejoice by singing and
dancing. They shower gifts on the bride and she offers them a pink cake
with a hidden thimble. Whoever gets the piece with the thimble, is
supposed to get married next. Just like this, groom celebrates the
Bachelor's party with his male friends.
This is considered a wild party bash, wherein he celebrates his last
night as a bachelor. Raising a toast is a must here. At some places,
just like the Hindu wedding, the bride and the groom are applied
turmeric and sandalwood paste. It is known as Haldaat ceremony. However,
in Goa it is known as Ross, wherein the couple is applied coconut paste
in place of turmeric. After all these rituals, finally the wedding day
On the wedding day, the groom sends a car to pick up the bride and
waits for her outside the church. After she arrives, the Best man of the
groom welcomes her with a bouquet of flowers. Then the couple walks down
the corridor gracefully to reach the altar. There the priest awaits them
and offers them best wishes. He then reads psalms from the Hoy Bible,
which is followed by sermon called Homily on the sacredness of the
wedding. Following this, he asks question to the bride and the groom
regarding their consent for the marriage.
The couple makes promises to stay with each other through thick and
thin and exchange rings. These rings are blessed by the priest first, to
instill love and faith between the two. After this the couple is blessed
by the gathering and the priest. The wedding concludes by signing on a
register and the couple walks down the aisle, arm in arm. A copy of the
signed page is later sent to the Registrar of Marriages.
Post Wedding Rituals
The Christian wedding is followed by a Reception, which is a
celebration party. It is a grand affair, wherein the couple is welcomed
by the guest, with a shower of confetti. After this, the newly-wed
couple cuts the wedding cake and feeds each other. The Toastmaster then
offers a toast in the honor of the couple. Besides, the Reception party
is celebrated with dance and dinner party. In many weddings, there is
even a live band present, which plays tunes, for the people to swing on.
Christian marriage takes place in church. To know more about Christian wedding rituals and traditions, read on.