Var Mala ceremony is an important main wedding day ceremony. It is also known as Jaimala and basically involves exchange of garlands between the bride and the groom. Like all other customs and rituals, this is also a significant ceremony which finds reference even in the Vedic literature. It is an ancient practice and is still observed in India. The var mala ceremony takes place after the groom reaches the venue for the wedding, along with the baraat.
Once he arrives there, the mother of the bride welcomes him on the
doorstep with a pooja thali. She applies tilak and performs aarti to
bless him and to ward off any evil. After this the groom proceeds
towards the main stage, where he awaits the arrival of the bride. After
a while, the bride reaches the spot with a garland in her hands. Seeing
this, the groom also stands and is given a garland. All the close
relatives, friends and family members flock around the couple, for the
The Jaimala ceremony begins with the bride trying to put garland around
the neck of the groom. This is prevented by groom's friends, in order to
tease the bride. To enable the bride perform the ritual, the associates
on her side help her to do the same. This is one of the most awaited
moments of the wedding as everyone enjoys the tussle between the two
parties as well as the new couple. Finally, the groom also puts the
garland around bride's neck. This ceremony indicates that the bride has
accepted the groom as her loving husband.